March 31, 2017

eCard of the Week #185: Task Isn't Your Job?

Oh, that task isn't in your job description?
Well, dealing with your bullshit isn't in mine.

March 30, 2017

Watching and Following

Photo (c)2017 Shannon G. Wamsley
Following Grandpa around the house.
Photo (c)2017 Shannon G. Wamsley
Watching Grandma make homemade pies.

Photo (c)2017 Shannon G. Wamsley

March 26, 2017

Sunday Stealing: The Kathy Aay Questions

1. What is the meaning of your blog’s name? Introspection: observation or examination of one's own mental and emotional state,mental processes, etc.; the act of looking within oneself.

2. Why did you start your blogging? It seemed a natural transition from writing in a journal.  Plus I like to meet new people around the world and open my mind to new things.

3. What’s your usual bedtime? 10:00AM

4. Are you lazy? Yes, as much as I can be.

5. Do you miss anyone right now? Yes

6. How would you describe your fashion sense? I have zero fashion sense.

7. What are your nicknames? Just one...Shay

8. Are you a patient person? Most of the time

9. Are you tight-fisted or frivolous? A good mixture of both but I lean towards tight-fisted.

10. What magazines do you read? Reader's Digest, Game Informer and a few others.

11. Are you stubborn? Sometimes

12. When is your birthday? October 13th

13. What book are you currently reading? Inferno by Dan Brown

14. What phone do you have? iPhone

15. Do you have any pets? One dog and some fish

16. Do you have siblings? One brother

17. Any children or grandchildren? Two children and two grandchildren.

18. What do you order at Starbucks? Mocha Frappe

19. What did you do for your last birthday? My husband was in the hospital and I spent time with him.

20. What’s your occupation? Contract Specialist

21. Do you live in the country or the city? I live in a small town (called a Village here in Wisconsin).

March 23, 2017

Happy National Puppy Day 2017

"puppy love"

You have a cute little nose
And happy wagging tail
You lick me when I come home
You bark because there's mail
You sleep in my bed
And think my shoe is a toy
Sweet little puppy
You fill me with joy
Oh, little puppy
So loyal and true
I just want you to know
How much I love you !

Author: unknown

March 20, 2017

Happy Spring 2017

"Spring is nature's way of saying,
 "Let's party!" --Robin Williams
“The promise of spring’s arrival is enough to get 
anyone through the bitter winter.” – Jen Slelinsky



March 19, 2017

Sunday Stealing: The TV Shows Questions

1. Name a TV show series in which you have seen every episode at least twice: M*A*S*H

2. Name a show you can't miss: Scorpion

3. Name an actor that would make you more inclined to watch a show: Nathan Fillion

4. Name an actor who would make you less likely to watch a show: Lawrence Fishburne

5. Name a show you can, and do, quote from: The Big Bang Theory

6. Name a show you like that no one else enjoys: My 600-lb Life

7. Name a TV show which you've been known to sing the theme song: M*A*S*H

8. Name a show you would recommend everyone to watch: Scorpion

9. Name a TV series you own: Band of Brothers

10. Name an actor who launched his/her entertainment career in another medium, but has surprised you with his/her acting chops in television: None that I can think of.

11. What is your favorite episode of your favorite series? Goodbye, Farewell and Amen; and several others.

12. Name a show you keep meaning to watch, but you just haven't gotten around to yet: None that I can think of.

13. Ever quit watching a show because it was so bad? Under the Dome

14. Name a show that's made you cry multiple times: M*A*S*H

15. What do you eat when you watch TV? Popcorn, candy, dinner, lunch, breakfast....a lot of different things.

16. How often do you watch TV? Every day.

17. What's the last TV show you watched?: The Expanse

18. What's your favorite/preferred genre of TV? Comedy or Crime

19. What was the first TV show you were obsessed with? M*A*S*H

20. What TV show do you wish you never watched? Under the Dome

21. What's the weirdest show you enjoyed? None that I can think of.

22. What TV show scared you the most? None that I can think of.

23. What is the funniest TV show you have ever watched? M*A*S*H

March 17, 2017

Happy St Patrick's Day 2017

Photo found on the Internet.
May you always have walls for the winds,
a roof for the rain, tea beside the fire,
laughter to cheer you, those you love you near you, 
and all your heart might desire!
**Photo found on the Internet.**

March 16, 2017

Pink Floyd - Wish You Were Here


So, so you think you can tell
Heaven from hell
Blue skies from pain
Can you tell a green field
From a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?

Did they get you to trade
Your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange
A walk on part in the war
For a lead role in a cage?

How I wish, how I wish you were here
We're just two lost souls
Swimming in a fish bowl
Year after year
Running over the same old ground
And how we found
The same old fears
Wish you were here

March 15, 2017

"The Sound Of Silence" by Distrubed


Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains within the sound of silence

In restless dreams I walked alone
Narrow streets of cobblestone
'Neath the halo of a street lamp
I turned my collar to the cold and damp

When my eyes were stabbed
By the flash of a neon light
That split the night
And touched the sound of silence

And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening

People writing songs
That voices never share
And no one dare
Disturb the sound of silence

"Fools," said I, "you do not know
Silence, like a cancer, grows.
Hear my words that I might teach you
Take my arms that I might reach you."
But my words like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells of silence

And the people bowed and prayed
To the neon God they made
And the sign flashed out its warning
And the words that it was forming

And the sign said,
"The words of the prophets
Are written on the subway walls
And tenement halls."
And whispered in the sound of silence

March 14, 2017

Selfish, Self-Centered People

Some people need to get out of their selfish, self-centered, "it's all about me" box....and realize the world does not revolve around them.

One cannot always blame their problems on others. One must own up to what one has done wrong and become a better person.

March 13, 2017

March 11, 2017

Sunday Stealing: The Eight/Ten Questions

**Posting my Sunday Stealing answers a day early!**

TEN TO START:

1. Are you single? No.
2. Are you happy? Most of the time.
3. Are you bored? No
4. Are you naked? No. 
5. Are you a blonde? No.
6. Are you moody? Sometimes
7. Are you a lover/hater? Lover
8. Are you hot/cold? Cold
9. Are you Irish? Yes
10. Are you Asian? No.

TEN FACTS:

1. Name: Shannon
2. Nickname: Shay
3. Birth mark: A mole near my left eye
4. Hair color: Dark brown with gray mixed in
5. Natural hair color: dark brown
6. Eye color: hazel
7. Height: 6'0"
8. Facebook Mood: meh
9. Favorite color: blue
10. One Place to Visit: Daytona Beach, Florida

TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE:

1. Do you believe in love at first sight? No.
2. Do you believe in soul mates? No.
3. Have you ever been hurt emotionally? Yes
4. Have you ever broken someone’s heart? No.
5. Have you ever been cheated on? Yes
6. Have you ever liked someone and not told them? Yes
7. Are you afraid of commitment? No.
8. Who was the last person you hugged? My husband
9. Who was the last person you kissed? My husband
10. Do you sleep in the nude? No

TEN THIS OR THAT:

1. Love or lust? Love
2. Cats or dogs? Dogs
3. A few best friends or many regular friends? A few best friends
4. Television or internet? Internet
5. Chinese Or Indian? Indian
6. Wild night out or romantic night in? Romantic night in
7. Money or Happiness? Happiness
8. Night or day? Night
9. Skype or phone? Phone
10. Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi

TEN HAVE YOU EVER:

1. Been caught sneaking out? Yes
2. Been skinny dipping? Yes
3. Stolen? Yes
4. Bungee jumped? Not yet.
5. Lied to someone you liked? Yes
6. Finished an entire jaw breaker? Yes
7. Cheated on a lover (yes kissing counts...)?   Yes
8. Wanted an ex bf/gf back? No.
9. Cried because you lost a pet? Yes
10. Wanted to disappear? Yes

TEN PREFERENCES IN A PARTNER:

1. Smile or eyes? Eyes
2. Light or dark hair? Dark hair
3. Hugs or kisses? Hugs
4. Shorter or taller? Taller
5. Intelligence or attraction? Intelligence
6. Romantic or spontaneous? Romantic
7. Funny or serious? Funny
8. Older or Younger? Older
9. Outgoing or quiet? Outgoing
10. Sweet or Bad Ass? Bad Ass

TEN HAVE YOU’S:

1. Ever performed in front of a large crowd? Yes
2. Ever done drugs? No
3. Ever been pregnant? Yes
4. Ever been on a cheer leading team? Yes
5. Ever Been on a dance team? Yes
6. Ever been on a sports team? Yes
7. Ever been in a drama play/production? Yes
8. Ever owned a BMW, Mercedes Benz, Escalade, Hummer or Bentley? No
9. Ever been in a rap video? No
10. Ever owned a pet? Yes...dogs, cats, rabbits, hamsters, guinea pigs, birds and fish.

TEN LASTS:

1. Last phone call you made: To a co-worker
2. Last person you hung out with: Husband
3. Last person you flirted with: Husband
4. Last time you worked: Yesterday
5. Last person you tackled: Husband
6. Last person you IM’d: A co-worker
7. Last person(s) you went to the movies with: Husband
8. Last thing you missed: Nap Time
9. Last time you did the nasty: No one's business but mine.
10. Last person you visited: My in-laws.

March 10, 2017

In Memory: March 10, 2016; 2:40AM

On March 10, 2016 at 2:40AM, my son...my handsome, loving, kind, caring and wonderful son, passed away. Acute Myeloid Leukemia ripped him from this world at the age of 23.  
I honestly do not know how I have made it through to now.  I really did think Colt would beat cancer and that he would be here for many more years.  But no, cancer decided it wanted to win...and it won in 31 days.   Colt died only 31 days after being diagnosed.  31 DAYS!  All the medical technology and medicine and treatments could not save him. I feel the doctors gave us false hope and that makes me angry. I know that leukemia would kill you someday but not 31 days after being diagnosed.

I miss Colt so much. 
The pain of losing him is so deeper than anything I have ever felt. There are no words to even begin to describe how I feel.  A large piece of my heart and soul died in Dallas when Colt passed. I am so very sorry I did not get there in time to say good bye...regret and guilt eat me alive some days.

Every day life is hard without Colt.  I miss his wonderful smile and his laugh. I miss hearing him say "Hi Mama".  I miss talking to him and I miss hearing his voice. I miss hearing "I love Mama!".  I miss the "good morning", "good night" and "I miss you Mama", text.  Hell I miss everything about my precious son.
 
 Most days, I feel like a robot, just going through the motions of each day.  
I do my best stay busy to keep the overwhelming emotions from taking me over. 
My heart and soul ache to the core.
Colt loved being a solider and I am so very proud of him.
Colt's ashes are at home with me.  
Someday soon, I will make sure his ashes are placed in a place fit for a soldier.
  
If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again.
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye
you were gone before I knew it, and only God knows why.
My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow,
what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know.
~Author Unknown

March 8, 2017

Hope, Love, Cure Leukemia

Last year my niece made these decals for my son and his fight against leukemia.
Colt lost his fight against this evilness.  Colt was strong until the end.
Memories of Colt and the love felt for Colt will never die.  
I hope and prayer for a cure so that no family has to go through
seeing their loved one fight the battle against leukemia!
 

March 7, 2017

eCard of the Week #182: I Have Been Through Hell...

I have already been through hell. So, give it your best shot.
Not only will I survive! I will win!

March 6, 2017

Opal Says You are Dreamy

**My birthstone is an opal.**
Opal Says You Are Dreamy: You have an innocent heart, and you truly believe in good in this world. You are an optimist.

You are a big daydreamer, and you think optimistically. There's no reason your dreams can't come true. Opals are thought to bring friendship and genuineness. You are a friend to many, and you get along well with others.

There isn't a mean bone in your body, and people are attracted to the true you. You have a lot to give. You go best with another opal. Surprised? You're so unique and multifaceted that only someone of your type will truly get you.


You clash with sapphire. While sapphires may impress you from afar, you find hanging out with them to be too constricting.

What Does Your Birthstone Say About You?


March 5, 2017

Sunday Stealing: The Questions of Age


1. By a certain age, women should know how to pay their bills first then if there is left over money, do something fun.

2. By a certain age men, should pull up their pants.

3. When I was young I thought by now I would be living near my parents and children.

4. Now that I am older I wish I was younger.

5. You know that you are too old to do an activity when you cannot keep up with the younger crowd.

6. You know you are too young to do an activity when you cannot understand the directions.

7. When I was in high school I listened to the music of 80's hair bands and country.

8. When I was in college (or the next four years after high school) I listened to the music of 80's hair bands, and country, mixed in with some early 90's pop.

9. These days, at my age I find myself listening music of a little bit of everything.

10. For my last birthday I was at the hospital with my husband.  He was very sick and ended up having surgery to remove his right foot (a below the knee amputation).  He is now a double amputee.

11. On my next birthday I want to forget it is my birthday.

12. The best birthday present I ever got was handmade cards and gifts from my children.

13. The first time I felt that I was an adult was when my electric got shut off because I did not pay the bill (and didn't know how to pay it).

14. The last time I felt like I was still a kid was when my son and I went sledding in the winter of 2009.

15. I would sum up 2016 by saying it was a very heartbreaking, soul wrenching year.

16. I hope I will sum up 2017 by saying in December that life will be a little better.

17. So far in terms of age, I feel my first big milestone was when I was 20 and my mother died.

18. As I look forward to the rest of my life’s journey, I feel my biggest milestone of my life will be facing my fear of death and dealing with the fact of death without having a panic attack.

19. By the time I was the age I am now I am surprised that I haven’t yet traveled and see all 50 states.

20. By the time I am 65, I hope that I have my loved one living near me and we hang out often.

March 3, 2017

100 Either / Or Questions


Coffee or tea? Tea
Black and white or color? Color
Drawings or paintings? Drawings
Dresses or skirts? Skirts
Books or movies? Books
Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
Chinese or Italian? Chinese
Early bird or night owl? Night owl
Chocolate or vanilla? Chocolate
Introvert or extrovert? Introvert

Hugs or kisses? Hugs
Hunting or fishing? Fishing
Winter or summer? Summer
Spring or fall? Spring
Rural or urban? Urban
PC or Mac? PC
Tan or pale? Tan
Cake or pie? Pie
Ice cream or yogurt? Ice Cream
Ketchup or mustard? Mustard

Sweet pickles or dill pickles? Sweet Pickles
Comedy or mystery? Comedy
Boots or sandals? Boots
Silver or gold? Silver
Jazz or classical? Jazz
Dancing or singing? Dancing
Checkers or chess? Checkers
Board games or video games? Video Games
Wine or beer? Wine
Freckles or dimples? Freckles

Honey mustard or BBQ sauce? BBQ Sauce
Body weight exercises or lifting weights? Body Weight Exercises
Baseball or basketball? Baseball
Crossword puzzles or sudokus? Crossword Puzzles
Facial hair or clean shaven? Facial Hair
Crushed ice or cubed ice? Crushed Ice
Skiing or snowboarding? Snowboarding
Smile or game face? Smile
Bracelet or necklace? Bracelet
Fruit or vegetables? Fruit

Sausage or bacon? Bacon
Scrambled or fried? Fried
Dark chocolate or white chocolate? Dark
Tattoos or piercings? Tattoos
Antique or brand new? Antique
Dress up or dress down? Dress Down
Cowboys or aliens? Cowboys
Cats or dogs? Dogs
Pancakes or waffles? Pancakes
Bond or Bourne? Bourne

Sci-Fi or fantasy? Sci-Fi
Numbers or letters? Letters
Star Wars or Star Trek? Star Trek
Fair or theme park? Theme Park
Money or fame? Money
Washing dishes or doing laundry? Laundry
Snakes or sharks? Sharks
Orange juice or apple juice? Orange Juice
Sunrise or sunset? Sunset
Slacker or over-achiever? Slacker

Pen or pencil? Pen
Peanut butter or jelly? Peanut Butter
Grammys or Oscars? Grammy's
Detailed or abstract? Abstract
Multiple choice questions or essay questions? Multiple Choice
Adventurous or cautious? Cautious
Saver or spender? Saver
Glasses or contacts? Contacts
Laptop or desktop? Desktop
Classic or modern? Classic

Personal chef or personal fitness trainer? Personal Chef
Internet or cell phone? Internet
Call or text? Text
Curly hair or straight hair? Curly Hair
Shower in the morning or shower in the evening? Evening
Spicy or mild? Mild
Marvel or DC? Marvel
Paying a mortgage or paying rent? Mortgage
Sky dive or bungee jump? Bungee Jump
Oreos or Chips Ahoy? Oreos

Jello or pudding? Pudding
Truth or dare? Truth
Roller coaster or Ferris wheel? Roller Coaster
Leather or denim? Leather
Stripes or solids? Solids
Bagels or muffins? Bagels
Whole wheat or white? White
Beads or pearls? Pearls
Hardwood or carpet? Hardwood
Bright colors or neutral tones? Neutral Tones

Be older than you are or younger than you are? Younger
Raisins or nuts? Nuts
Picnic or nice restaurant? Nice restaurant
Black leather or brown leather? Black Leather
Long hair or short hair? Long
“Ready, aim, fire” or “Ready, fire, aim”? Ready, Aim, Fire!
Fiction or non-fiction? Fiction
Smoking or non-smoking? Non-smoking
Think before you talk or talk before you think? Think before you talk

March 1, 2017

A Basket of Sunshine

This morning I walked into my cubicle at work and found this beautiful 
basket full of goodies waiting for me.  My co-workers are totally awesome.Photo (c)2017 Shannon G. Wamsley
Photo (c)2017 Shannon G. Wamsley